The world of SL seems to be quite turbulent, especially the Swedish part.
I would say that the Day SL stops being fun then I am out from there. I hope that thats the whole point of SL. If you put a Healthy view on it.
1) A dear SL friend taught me that the easiest way to live the life in SL, is to keep trouble away. The button for that is the "mute" button. Then you dont need to get any crap and its very non Drama if you take it as a "filter" system. I use this button whenever i need to keep my SL clean. Right or wrong thats the decision i took.
2) I had two people muted that are leaving us now. I dont see it as a victory at all. I am really sad that they leave since they brought a lot of good into SL. Whatever our problems were, I am very impressed by their way of bringing bright and good ideas to SL. They brought something positive to many of my Friends.
3) I will not judge and speak about things that can have happened or not. The only thing I can say is that I have had discussions with the person involved in these several incidents. I am a tough person in many ways, but in this case, even I got frightened. I wont go into details, but I simply took the decision to protect myself and this is why I use the definition that is stated under 1)above.
Thats the way I see it and the way I act in this matter