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onsdag 11 augusti 2010

If Today Was Your Last Day ?

If Today Was Your Last Day Nickelback

The text made me think ! Isnt that how to live each Day, as if it was your last day?
hmm what happends to plans ? Well you still can make them cant you? Just dont let them ruin your life, meanwhile.
I think that, that line " Live you life like if today was you last Day" probably mostly means how you treat others and that you dont let "small" things ruin your Day?
Can get complex thinking about it, but still its a Nice way to treat your Day ;-)
Trouble can sometimes tend to grow to BIG inside your head. And when you "suffered those 2bad" things", then you see that you still are alive, and that life actually continues. There are happiness even after those moments, so dont let them get to Big, in your head. Still we are strongeer than we realize, so just keep thinking positivly ;-)and treat others with respect, even in your second life. Even if you hide behind an avatar then its up to you to feel good about yourself. People are good deep inside atleast,so I dont think that anyone actually really wants to be bad to others...

So try to live without the regrets....but dont give away your last dime..LOL

May the good force be with you...
//Styxl

tisdag 10 augusti 2010

Relations from the past ;-)

We all do have a past. We all had relations...
How do you handle old relations and meories from the past ?
Its very easy to remember the good times, even if there also were bad times. Should we go back or should we stay away ? Its easy to miss things from the past. Is that healthy? How should we handle memories?

No easy answers probably. You just have to use your common sense probably. Somethings might be best off just to stay as Nice memories?

If you think a lot about these things then You probably havent gone through it in your mind properly. Maybe you never dealt with it since it did hurt you? So you need to think about what happened and why you're so hung up on it. Why not write a letter to your ex friend (but don't mail it). Say everything you want to say. Then you can do something ceremonial, like ripping the letter into pieces and burning it or throwing it into the waves. You have to think of reasons why you and your ex were not meant to be. Contemplate if you are better off. In some cases, you might have screwed up really badly and you want to remain friends with this person.
Even better (depends on the current status) talk to the person and go through things and get it settled. Its always good to get things cleared.

If you still feel unsettled after some time, maybe you need to reconsider if loosing this person was the right thing to do?

Who knows, but try to just do the right thing :-)

Nice quote -->
"A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are."

Hugs from
//Styxl

"The Wise Old man"

A wise old man who was traveling in the mountains found a precious stone in a stream. The next day he met another traveler who was hungry, and the wise man opened his bag to share his food. The hungry traveler saw the precious stone and asked the man to give it to him. He did so without hesitation. The traveler left, rejoicing in his good fortune. He knew the stone was worth enough to give him security for a lifetime.

But, a few days later, he came back to return the stone to the wise old man.

"I've been thinking," he said. "I know how valuable this stone is, but I give it back in the hope that you can give me something even more precious. Give me what you have within you that enabled you to give me this stone."

Sometimes it's not the wealth you have but, what's inside you that others need.