My Time

lördag 7 augusti 2010

The coin...


Communication is difficult in RL. As text is only 7% of all the communication needed to avoid misunderstandings, then communication gets even harder in SL. There are and will be many situations that are based on misunderstandings.
Its like a coin. We talk about the same coin. Nobody is wrong but the details are from different sides and then they dont look the same. Still we talk about the same coin. Thats where we need to be patient with eachother and listen in on what facts we are missing. The situation can get totally wrong if it is based on wrong and different input/information.

So be careful in there. Always take the time to try to get all the facts on the table. Try to get the whole value of the coin. Otherwise the Coin is worthless for both sides and we have created an unnecessary conflict situation. Lets be patient with eachother and not haste into assumptions. As the americans say: If you ASS-U-ME, then you make an ASS of both U and ME.

Hugs
//Styxl

fredag 6 augusti 2010

Successful on the outside - Bad inside ? Waste of Energy !

How come that some people forget the right values in life. They are creative and work hard to show success. Somehow this has made them forget that the lasting values are on the inside and how you behave as a human being. Sweeping stuff under the carpet doesnt give any more value than for the immediate success. Long term success and feeling good, is being a good human and having a clean inside. Being proud of how you are a s an human being and not create success for any value and forget how to be that good person.

How we handle and behave against other people is the important thing. And that we our selves know that we are good or not. If you forget that then success hasnt any value even if you hide behind an avatar in SL and sweep the truth under the carpet. We are all different, we have different backgrounds and we certainly think different. Still I think that we all have a well developed sense of what is right or wrong. Especially if we get both sides of the story. If we have the same facts then we probably KNOW what the "good thing to do" is. Then how we behave thats another story. there can be stress or even foolish pride that makes us do the wrong things. Some people can sweep that bad thing they do/did under the carpet as long as it looks good from the outside. StillI they know that they feel bad inside about it. They use energy to put that bad feeling aside, just so they can live on what the success and temporary boost gives them. Still you can never forget. Its still in there even if you did put that bad thing, you did, away. Use the right energy and take that step. Make it right, it a good investment. Temporarily it takes energy from you, but when you have killed that "bad feeling inside", in the long run you save energy and feel better about yourself. That IS an good investment. Thats what your "inner life" is all about. felling good about yourself from the inside, not trying to look good from the outside.

So take a deep dive into yourself and look at those energy thieves and the "bad things". Go to that person, sort that situation and make it good. You deserve that, to feel good about yourself and not use energy to hide that inside you.

Walk in piece
//Styxl

torsdag 5 augusti 2010

Styxl and SL ?

STYXL and SL ?
A drop in the ocean
A change in the weather
I was praying that you and me might end up together
Its like wishing for rain as i stand in the desert
But i'm holding you closer than most,
Cause you are my heaven.

I dont wanna waste the weekend
If you dont love me, pretend a few more hours, then its time to go
As my train rolls down the east coast I wonder how you keep warm
Its too late to cry
To broken to move on
And still i cant let you be
Most nights i hardly sleep
Don't take what you dont need from me

Its just a drop in the ocean
A change in the weather
I was praying that you and me might end up together
Its like wishing for rain as i stand in the desert
But i'm holding you closer than most,
Cause you are my heaven.

Misplaced trust and old friends
Never counting regrets
But a grace of god i do not rest at all
In new Second Life as the leaves change
The last excuse ill claim, i was a boy who loved a women like a little girl
And still i cant let you be
Most nights i hardly sleep
Dont take what you dont need from me

Its just a drop in the ocean
A change in the weather
I was praying that you and me might end up together
Its like wishing for rain as i stand in the desert
But i'm holding you closer than most,
Cause you are my,

Haven doesnt seem far away anymore no no
Haven doesnt seem far away
Haven doesnt seem far away anymore no no
Haven doesnt seem far away

A drop in the ocean
A change in the weather
I was praying that you and me might end up together
Its like wishing for rain as i stand in the desert
But i'm holding you closer than most,
Cause you are my heaven.

You are my heaven

STYXL and SL seems to be the never ending Love and Hate story ;-)

//Styxl